Getting divorced is one of the most difficult experiences a person can go through. This is especially true if you're not the one who initiated it. There's nothing worse than being blindsided by someone who claimed to love you and then decided to leave you forever. For some people, it can be nearly impossible to recover. The shock and disbelief that comes with being left are an example of things that change your life forever. However, some people are able to look on the bright side, which is sometimes the only thing that helps them get through such difficult times.